7 phrases parents should never say to their eldest child
dharasuta
Monday, April 27, 2026
Eldest children often bear an invisible emotional burden due to parental expectations. Phrases like 'you should know better' or 'you're the responsible one' can stifle their individuality and create resentment. Parents should offer support, appreciate actions without imposing roles, and avoid making them feel their childhood is over or their value is solely based on contribution.